I met this guy and I’m really feelin him and I’m starting to get nervous about having sex with him. This has never happened to me before; I’ve never been in love and the only time I was nervous about sex was my first time. Furthermore, I’ve only been sleeping with guys for the last two years.

He’s hispanic, upper 20s, a VERY experienced bottom and 5′ 8". I’m Black, mid 20s, a top and 5′ 11", but I’m just under 7". He loves black men and I’m really starting to feel insecure, which is new for me too. I start to envision his past experiences and then I start thinking I won’t measure up . . .pun intended. So I guess my question is for the experienced bottoms out there: What exactly makes sex pleasurable for you in terms of penetration? How can a top that isn’t very large still make anal sex enjoyable for his partner? Any insight would be very helpful thanks.
I need a little more than this. Any bottoms with some specific advice out there? I really want to make sure that he enjoys it.

Well, I’m 7", and I think that is plenty big; of course, I also use my fists.

3 Responses

1. Andrew Says:
   May 26th, 2010 at 7:39 pm

   I’m straight but 7" is nothing to be ashamed of…
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2. Johann, the other white meat Says:
   May 26th, 2010 at 8:10 pm

   Well, I’m 7", and I think that is plenty big; of course, I also use my fists.
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3. Femme fatale Says:
   May 26th, 2010 at 8:34 pm

   I believe it’s not about the size to make sex more pleasurable, it’s the way how u use your tool.
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