The world is made up of 75 percent extroverts, 25 percent introverts. It’s a rather natural facet of human nature that when there’s a 3:1 ratio of people who live in a certain way, the three are going to run over the 1 quite frequently. I’m an introvert by the way.
I think extroverts just don’t have the same way of looking at life that introverts do. That’s not bad or good. I’m glad I’m an introvert, it’s the only way I know how to live. Extroverts don’t seem to get the same kind of reward in analyzing why they think, feel, and behave the way they do. They’re always moving on to the next thing. I think they appear more productive. More fun.
Extroverts want shy people to be part of the great fascinating social circuit that the world is to them. Introverts want to spend time in quiet, meaningful conversation with others around them. We just don’t value the same things much of the time.
For an introvert, there seems to be a great pressure to be out there from extroverts. Extroverts have to realize what a strain it is, and introverts have to try to slow down the extroverts and get them to see how life at the slower pace is what’s really joyous to introverts.
So if you’re an introvert being pressured, it’s really a situation you have to explain to them. That’s not in the extroverts experience. Check out the link below, and read his book in a library some time. I think you’ll find it very helpful to understanding yourself. References : http://www.keirsey.com
Because they are selfish and impatient.They have refused to understand the fact that we are all different and live under different circumstances influenced by different environments.
Change is a process that takes time.It also depends on the support accorded to the one in need.
Yes, we are to encourage some one in need so that s/he can catch up with us.
These kind of people need to be sensitized on these issues so that no one is left out or let down.Thanks for pointing it out References :
Most of the anger is due to frustration; the inability to understand why that introverted person is the way he/she is. Having not faced the same challenges, lived through similar experiences, they are unable to comprehend what the person has experienced to make them the way they are. References :
Most people do not understand shy people. It is hard to get into their boat. Me personally, I have thought that some people are shy just to get attention, but then come to realize, that the shy person is full of unfounded fear. So, as a Mentor, I try to bring strength out in the shy people that ask me for help. References :
March 1st, 2010 at 4:34 am
They figure if they arouse a strong feeling in the shy person then the shy person will become agressive, therfore less shy.
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March 1st, 2010 at 5:13 am
They are not mad at shy people:-)
They just like to bully people
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Life experiences
March 1st, 2010 at 5:32 am
The world is made up of 75 percent extroverts, 25 percent introverts. It’s a rather natural facet of human nature that when there’s a 3:1 ratio of people who live in a certain way, the three are going to run over the 1 quite frequently. I’m an introvert by the way.
I think extroverts just don’t have the same way of looking at life that introverts do. That’s not bad or good. I’m glad I’m an introvert, it’s the only way I know how to live. Extroverts don’t seem to get the same kind of reward in analyzing why they think, feel, and behave the way they do. They’re always moving on to the next thing. I think they appear more productive. More fun.
Extroverts want shy people to be part of the great fascinating social circuit that the world is to them. Introverts want to spend time in quiet, meaningful conversation with others around them. We just don’t value the same things much of the time.
For an introvert, there seems to be a great pressure to be out there from extroverts. Extroverts have to realize what a strain it is, and introverts have to try to slow down the extroverts and get them to see how life at the slower pace is what’s really joyous to introverts.
So if you’re an introvert being pressured, it’s really a situation you have to explain to them. That’s not in the extroverts experience. Check out the link below, and read his book in a library some time. I think you’ll find it very helpful to understanding yourself.
References :
http://www.keirsey.com
March 1st, 2010 at 5:47 am
Because they are selfish and impatient.They have refused to understand the fact that we are all different and live under different circumstances influenced by different environments.
Change is a process that takes time.It also depends on the support accorded to the one in need.
Yes, we are to encourage some one in need so that s/he can catch up with us.
These kind of people need to be sensitized on these issues so that no one is left out or let down.Thanks for pointing it out
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March 1st, 2010 at 6:01 am
They were brought up in an environment where being silent/indecisive/shy results in being reprimanded. SO, they become tough, and mean.
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March 1st, 2010 at 6:10 am
Most of the anger is due to frustration; the inability to understand why that introverted person is the way he/she is. Having not faced the same challenges, lived through similar experiences, they are unable to comprehend what the person has experienced to make them the way they are.
References :
March 1st, 2010 at 7:00 am
Most people do not understand shy people. It is hard to get into their boat. Me personally, I have thought that some people are shy just to get attention, but then come to realize, that the shy person is full of unfounded fear. So, as a Mentor, I try to bring strength out in the shy people that ask me for help.
References :